Library haul...
this is what happens when you order books late at night at least it wasn't an amazon order 😀 |
Figs on the fig tree...
In the judgment chapter of the Kitchen Table Wisdom by
Rachel Naomi Remen I found this paragraph interesting...
Judgment
does not only take the form of criticism. Approval is also a form of
judgment. When we approve of people, we sit in judgment of them as
surely as when we criticize them. Positive judgment of them as
surely as when we criticize them. Positive judgment hurts less
acutely than criticism, but it is judgment all the same and we are harmed by it
in far more subtle ways. To seek approval is to have no resting
place, no sanctuary. Like all judgment, approval encourages a
constant striving. It makes us uncertain of who we are and of our
true value. This is as true of the approval we give ourselves as it
is of the approval we offer others. Approval can’t be
trusted. It can be withdrawn at any time no matter what our track
record has been. It is as nourishing of real growth as cotton
candy. Yet many of us spend our lives pursuing it.
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